OCD Support Resources
What is OCD?
A brain stuck on "what if?"
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition where a person experiences unwanted, intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and feels a strong urge to do certain actions (compulsions) to feel safe or in control. It’s not just about being clean or organised, it’s often about anxiety, fear, and needing to stop something “bad” from happening.
It’s not always visible, or logical
OCD can look different for everyone. Some people wash or check things repeatedly. Others need things to feel “just right” or silently repeat phrases in their head. Many hide their compulsions, so it can go unnoticed for years, especially in women, children, and Autistic people. What might seem “irrational” from the outside makes perfect sense to the brain trying to survive it.
Support should focus on safety, not stopping
The goal of support isn’t to simply stop compulsions, it’s to understand what’s driving them, reduce distress, and build healthier ways to feel safe. Blame, shame, or forced exposure only make things worse. With the right help, people with OCD can learn to live meaningful lives on their own terms.
Championing people with PDA or ODD
The key to supporting someone with OCD is compassion, curiosity, and consistency. Here’s some practical ways you can support someone with OCD to make life easier for them, without increasing anxiety or shame:
Help seperate the person from the OCD.
Phrases like “That’s the OCD talking” can help people externalise the condition. Remind them that they are not their compulsions, and that they’re doing their best to cope.
Never use shame or guilt to “motivate”.
Many people with OCD feel deep shame about their thoughts or rituals. Mocking or pressuring them can increase secrecy, distress, and hopelessness.
Collaborate, don’t control.
Support plans should be built with the person, not done to them. Respect their insight and involve them in every step of their care.
Be patient, progress takes time.
Progress with OCD isn’t always linear. Support small steps, celebrate wins, and don’t rush. Healing happens in their time, not ours.
Look out for less obvious OCD types.
OCD isn’t just about cleaning. It can involve moral worries, relationship doubts, identity fears, or mental rituals, all of which deserve equal support.
How we can help people with OCD
Whole Family Developmental Support →
Understand what OCD really is (and isn’t)
Learn how to respond without reinforcing compulsions
Support that empowers families and avoids power struggles
Functional Capacity & Needs
Assessments
Reports that identify how OCD affects daily life and participation
Strengths-based, respectful insights for NDIS and other supports
Language that avoids pathologising and focuses on real-world needs
Behaviour support that respects OCD as a mental health condition
Strategies that reduce distress and increase flexibility
Support plans that work with the person’s goals and capacity
Psychology and Mental Health →
Therapy to help manage obsessions, anxiety, and compulsions
Tools for distress tolerance, exposure (when appropriate), and values-based action
Clinicians trained to support OCD with compassion and clarity
Ideal for families in rural or remote areas needing more than telehealth
Fast tracked strategies for home, school, and community
Calm, collaborative support tailored to your environment and goals
Not sure what’s right for you? Every person is different. Say G’day to Brooke today and we can work together to see what we can do to support you.
Hear it from real families
“Before we understood what was really going on for J, every day felt like a struggle. Our support workers were doing their best, but nothing seemed to click. It often felt like we were all trying to push J into doing things, and the more we pushed, the more he shut down.
When Brooke and her team explained Autism & PDA to us, it was like someone finally turned the light on. We realised he wasn’t being difficult, he was doing everything he could to feel safe and in control.
With Brooke’s help, our whole approach changed. His support workers stopped trying to force things and started meeting him where he’s at by giving him time, space, and choices.
Now, J’s so much more relaxed. He actually wants to spend time with his workers because they see him for who he is. He laughs more, joins in on his own terms, and doesn’t feel like he has to mask or meet anyone else’s expectations.
It’s been incredible to watch him grow into himself, just by being accepted”
- J’s Mum
*Story and photo shared with permission. Not for reproduction.
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We understand that life isn’t always neat or easy, and behaviour support should never feel like a judgement or try to change who you are.